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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The above post is 100 percent why I am annoyed.

But here is what is incredibly frustrating. Every time I bring up the issue, DH pulls out a piece of paper or calendar and goes into brainstorming mode. It's overwhelming. I hate it. Not everything needs to be a damn meeting.[/quote]

So, to recap:

1. You had complaints.
2. DH got out a paper and was ready to work with you.
3.  You still aren’t happy because… why, exactly?[/quote]

While I’m 90% sure this is a troll or a double reverse swap thing…I’ll bite.

My husband is like this because he either doesn’t want to or can’t plan his way out of a paper bag.  So he doesn’t like something I’ve planned and wants to change it, or wants to do something de novo, but being even partly responsible for any decisions freaks him out.  He is almost incapable of agree to a plan.  Pretty sure it’s ADD or something.  And if he’s in a pissy mood, he’ll complain about whatever plans we have, even if it’s something he wants to do.

Now, I might over plan because of anxiety (how I manage my ADD!), so fair, he can complain about that - but things need to be planned, or we all just sit around doing nothing. [/quote]

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