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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good family = Still Married 
I’m not saying a divorced family is a bad family, it’s just not the utopic poster child ideal version of GOOD family. [/quote]

My parents have been together for 50 something years but my dad suddenly up and left. Am I from a bad family?[/quote]

I mean yes, if someone is looking at your family from the outside they will perceive it differently than they did 10 yrs ago. Does not erase your own experience.

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I don't think there is a perfect family though. A good family mostly depends on the father. If the father is good, lawful, financially responsible, puts family first and isn't a selfish narcissist then[b] it's all good times ahead for the family. [b]You have the kids college paid, nice house in nice neighborhood[/b] instead of some roach or mouse infested place, [b]nice schools[/b], more opportunities, parents speak fluent English, good jobs, all those equal good family. [/quote]

You missed the part “parents speak fluent English” . . . Wait what? [/quote]

Correct. Parents who speak fluent English have more job opportunities meaning higher pay meaning affording a better neighborhood and life for their kids. I worked in hr and we couldn't move up any people who refused to speak or learn English because they wouldn't be able to communicate with their teams.[/quote]

I’m embarrassed for you PP. Tell me you are White without telling me you are White.[/quote]

I'm embarrassed for you to be so ignorant to be drama full about English being needed in an English speaking country. I am not white  and that shouldn't even matter.[/quote]

Oh no I didn’t say English wasn’t important. I said your view that English speaking = criteria for good family is stupid, narrow minded and mypoic.[/quote]
Without English finances are stressed out enough for the average immigrant to afford a family and marriage unless you work in construction where you can make decent pay. Good family to most means a loving nuclear family fyi. Also you mentioned none of those things. You're being insulting over the internet and being a dumbass.[/quote]

Huh, interesting deflection. I actually Have posted previously about these factors. I was responding to Your Post, which did Not Mention any of these either. Let me quote: “Correct. Parents who speak fluent English have more job opportunities meaning higher pay meaning affording a better neighborhood and life for their kids. I worked in hr and we couldn't move up any people who refused to speak or learn English because they wouldn't be able to communicate”

Also, Tell me You’re Not An Immigrant without Telling Me You’re Not An Immigrant

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