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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, since it's not a money issue, I'd just roll with the 50-50 I'd that's what the judge orders despite it obviously being too much for him being a full time parent.

Your DH will almost certainly lose interest in having this much parenting time once he has it.

Few fathers actually want to do the work of 50-50

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OP here. I believe it may be a money issue for my ex based on recent negotiations. It seems as if my ex is banking on getting money from me somehow.[/quote]

If you are the higher earner, you should be paying child support.  If he's the higher earner, he should be paying child support.

Most fathers want 50-50 and to be parents.  It's sad someone would say this to justify taking away the kids from their father.

The real issue is OP is the higher earner and doesn't want to pay child support.[/quote]

If the other parent wanted to be a parent, they should’ve been doing that this entire time. They are the one who didn’t want to.[/quote]

They have been taking allowed time.  OP is controlling the time and not allowing Dad 50-50 so how can they do it if aren't allowed?[/quote]

OP. The other parent has actually always taken their time as stated in the temporary order. Also, that was my comment you replied to. The temporary order is as it is now because it is what the other parent requested.[/quote]

I'm not a lawyer. But, I think that you can ask the judge to keep things as is-that the temp order is what he requested and you're both following it. Status quo.

Maybe the dad would be open to negotiation regarding child support? Like, keep the timesharing as-is and he pays less than the formula? [/quote]

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