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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t know why all the shade Op.  You can fall in love with anyone, but falling in love with a nice man who make a high income is so much better than falling in love with a nice poor man.  Money makes everything easier.

Definitely possible to still meet a good catch at 28.  They aren’t all snapped up- though the herd has thinned [/quote]

There is a lot between high income wealth and poor. Come on now, these are extremes.  I think obviously, money is better for issues and problems that will arise in the marriage (and they will!)  that can be fixed with money. For other issues, ie he becomes a cheater, he's prone to depression, he becomes addicted, he gets sick and copes poorly,  he's a bore or self absorbed or a workaholic or a big insensitive clod as a father or worse, cruel. Those are problems that money does not simply fix.  It doesn't make a man a family man, it doesn't make him empathic after you miscarry on the bathroom floor, it doesn't make him devoted, it doesn't make him take care care of you if you get very sick or present if you have tragedy. Just do a hard assessment of what money can and cannot do. Everything we have we built together as a partnership. Our foundation was Love, as corny as that sounds. And through nearly 30 years and our fair share of joy and tragedy too it was the Love that carried us through. I tell my daughter the same. I feel bad for you that you don't get this.[/quote]

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