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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote: Anonymous wrote: 11:09 that makes me weep. I cannot imagine hearing those words, and the fact that the OP is so unbelievably unseeing that this is the case for many parents struggling with this information is just beyond the pale. OP, you need to shut up when you don't know what you're talking about. I am not the OP, but it makes me weep too. But the only difference is, the fact that you and the above PP are so unbelievably unseeing that killing your own child yourself just to save it from being killed? What? I don't get that? Of course you wouldn't "get that." Have you been through it? I'm not the PP, but yes, I have been through it and I also "don't get it." I forever will be grateful for the 20 wonderful days with my baby who had T18. [quote]But understand that other people might feel about it differently. It's not your job to judge.[/quote][/quote] No judgment in my post, I was just sharing my personal experience as other PPs have done. I did what I needed to do. That's all. [/quote] There are many of us who understood that you were sharing very personal feelings and not being judgmental. My husband and I have some very dear friends whose first granddaughter was born with T18. She was greatly loved and gave so much joy during the 15 months of her life. When she passed away, her dad our friends' son) gave the most beautiful tribute and expression of his feelings. He shared many wonderful memories. Believe me, there was not one person in the church who did not shed tears--from sadness, yes, but also from an understanding and appreciation that her life had meaning. [/quote]
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