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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP and omg my DH is the same way and it drives me nuts. I just tried some of the suggested responses in this thread and it went about as well as you would expect:

DH: (storms into the room) "Do you know where the light bulbs are?"
Me: "No, did you look for them?"
DH: (already frustrated) "Well I'm not trying to look a million places if you know where they are!"
Me: "Okay, so where have you looked so far?"
DH: (now pissed) "I didn't look anywhere yet, okay?!"
Me: "Okay, well I don't know either"
DH: (Haphazardly rummages through a couple drawers barely looking and storms off)

I can't do this forever. Biding my time until I can leave him.[/quote]

Doing what you did would drive me nuts. Did you actually not know where the lightbulbs were or were you just trying to be nasty to your husband?  Frankly I might not know where the lightbulbs were in my house if someone else u loaded the groceries. Why wouldn’t i ask instead of looking in a million places. [/quote]

The lightbulbs are always in the same place and he's gotten them from there before. I honestly didn't know if we had any because I haven't needed to replace one in a while. But if we did have any, they'd be in the usual spot where they've always been. So he didn't need to look in a million places, just one. That's the point.[/quote]

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