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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The only thing OP said her DH did was make fun of her outfit.  It's not clear if he refused to let her come to the party unless she changed, or if OP was pissed off at his bumblebee comment and refused to go to the party.  The first scenario is abuse.  The second scenario is super immaturity on OP's part.

I am surprised so many people are calling him abusive when OP's original facts are so lacking.

OP - we need more info. [/quote]

Enough of your trolling!

There's absolutely nothing that can justify OP's husband mocking her outfit , having their children movk her outfit. Getting upset when she didn't change and then taking their kids and leaving because he didn't get his way.
That's abusive behavior period.

We don't excuse abusive behavior on DCUM so I suggest you go troll elsewhere.[/quote]

I’m the pp you’re responding to, and I’m not a troll.

Are you actually saying that, in the absence of other background, if you spouse laughs at the other for a terrible outfit while the kids are standing there - that this by itself is abuse???  You are making a mockery of abuse. I’m on 22 years of happy marriage with a compassionate husband, and we’ve definitely had laughs at the others expense over the years regarding clothes (he hates my denim shorts, and skinny jeans are not kind to his thighs, just for starters).

If op walked down the stairs legitimately looking like a bumblebee and her DH was like “ha you look like a bumblebee, heys kids mom looks like a bumblebee” and Op lost her shit, refused to go the party or answer his calls… there is no de facto abuse in that scenario.

With more information, it may rise to abuse. But with the gaps OP left out, I’m not ready to jump to abuse. Again you make a mockery of abuse by suggesting this meets the threshold. [/quote]

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