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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All these people saying they're not friends with their bridesmaids 20 years later are telling on themselves. [/quote]
I think it depends on what age you get married. I got married before I was 25, my bridesmaids were my college roommates and my best friend in DC. Fast forward to age 43, I am the only one of my college roommates who lives in this area, everyone has their own lives and their own families, and often the person you are at 25 is not the person you are at 43. I will always love those girls but they aren’t my inner circle anymore. That’s just life.[/quote]

That's not just life. T[b]hat's you not putting effort into female friendships. [/b][/quote]

NP> This is crazy. I value old friendships, but I was 21 when I was married and I am 47 now. Over 25 years, we have all moved, grown apart, changed. I am still close with one person from my party: my sister. No one works harder at female friendships than I do, and I have a wonderful core group now. I even have some old friends who are far away I have known for over a decade whom I still work to keep in touch with and see once or twice a year.

But 21 year old me is not almost 50 me. It's not a character flaw to grow apart.[/quote]

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