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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m surprised no one has asked you this - have you even met his daughter yet? I didn’t let my children meet my new SO until we had been dating seriously for a year. [/quote]

I haven’t. We met a year ago but have been dating officially for 6 months.[/quote]

This whole situation is laughable. I love the Notebook and for OP to say her situation is like the Notebook is silly.

You haven’t even met your boyfriend’s daughter and only dating 6 months.  OP is delusional thinking both of these men want to marry her.[/quote]

I haven’t met his kid yet because she lives in a different state. He got offered a job out here about 8 months ago that offered him a lot more money, so he moved out here. [b]He and his ex wife decided it would be best for their child to finish out the school year then move out here to all be closer together.[/b] He flies out twice a month to see her.[/quote]

OMG, really OP? Are you dense? This guy is not divorced. I don't care what any legal piece of paper says he is not divorced from his wife. The two of them are making decisions as a couple on where the wife (and child) will live so they will "all be closer together." I understand that people need to cooperate to coparent, but the way you phrase/present it makes it seem far beyond the norm.

I hope you are ready to meet not only his child, but his so-called ex-wife who will probably be enmeshed in his life once they are geographically "all closer together" again. [/quote]

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