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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]the chance that OP will find a second husband willing to buy houses for his stepchildren is vanishingly small. that is not a reasonable option.

if OP wants the life she wants, it is on her, either married to this husband or not. [/quote]

Maybe she does not want a second husband (I don't!). Maybe she just does not want to be reminded every day that her partner does nt seem to care that she is working herself to the bone while he coasts along. This two kinds of people don't fit together. She is clearly not okay with the dynamic. He is. This is a mismatch.[/quote]

Sure. But what OP and those saying "just divorce" don't realize is that it doesn't really solve anything other than the fact that she won't be miserably married. He's still not going to prioritize the same things. She's still going to have to work a high stress job to fund her priorities. And now you have the fun added money suck of divorce and two residences. The resentment will still be there. The anger towards him will still be there. She just won't have to deal with it face to face [/quote]

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