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Reply to "I don't want to be under pressure when my DH isn't "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]the chance that OP will find a second husband willing to buy houses for his stepchildren is vanishingly small. that is not a reasonable option. if OP wants the life she wants, it is on her, either married to this husband or not. [/quote] And this is why therapy is important. It's not about changing who you are it's about learning to deal with it and not make you miserable. The reality is, divorced or not, if you want what you want the situation isn't going to change. Divorced or not, you're still going to have to keep your job if you want what you want. Sure, maybe you'll meet someone else with your same level of stress or who is OK with you taking a less stressful job and he can help provide for your kids futures. But obviously you can't plan on that. So therapy will help you learn to make peace with your situation. It's certainly worth a try instead of just getting more bitter [/quote]
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