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[quote=Anonymous]Op here.

Husband slept on the couch yesterday. We have interacted little today although he sent out and came back saying he bought tennis balls for our lesson tonight. I am keeping to myself and processing everything.

I am annoyed that my husband tries to paint me as the bad guys instead of being on my team or acting like we are a unit. I understand for better or worse his family, especially his MOTHER is VERY important to him. His sister and he hardly communicate outside of the family gatherings and his dad is a nice but quiet man. Whenever I make a request to create some sort of boundary, instead of agreeing to it or seeing my point, he throws a fit saying his family has always done it this way and his mom's feelings will be hurt if we do something differently.

- His only regular vacation is when we go away with his family to the beach. No matter what or how, if his mother says we are doing it he will be on board. When I ask about planning a vacation for just the two of us, its a struggle.

- His family liked to do road trips all together in one big SUV. Mom, dad, brother sister. When I married him, it was me included. Imagine a 5 hour road trip. ALL OF US TOGETHER. This kept on going until SIL got herself a fiancé and now she and he travel separately. Of course MIL, FIL, Husband and I still TRAVEL TOGETHER!!!

- His sister has always either hated me or ignored my existence. She makes fun of me and puts me down in front of others and her family. NO ONE TELLS HER TO STOP. I have cried about this flabbergasted to my  husband many times and his only response is, " I can't control my family!"

- If I say I don't want to do something, instead of respecting my wishes, he will go whine to his mom about how Larla doesnt want to do X and then it becomes a whole thing where I am the bad guy.

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