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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm very sorry, OP.  What your husband did was wrong.  It's black and white.

I intend this advice as kindly as possible: Stop putting your time and effort into therapy, and use those resources to march toward divorce.  Get your papers in order, talk to a lawyer, figure out what you want and need in the settlement process.  Start taking control.  [b]And be sure to take care of yourself -- sleeping, eating, exercising, seeing supportive friends, get individual therapy.[/b]

Your spouse is not regretful about an affair.  You deserve better. It's time to focus on the next stage of your life, and I wish you well.

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She probably does not want an divorce.
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Unfortunately, a marriage takes 2 and a divorce only takes 1.

Many have been in her shoes and did not have it turn out the way we wanted for us or our kids.

Couples counseling with an unrepentant cheater is often the last stop before you get served (hopefully it will not be on the school playground at morning drop off, that sucked.)[/quote]

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