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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, another date night ends with no sex and no affection. It's been 3 times in 4 months. That's why I cheat.  I love my spouse but it's platonic.

My AP is an amazing sensual woman but I am not breaking up my kids home for her.  I do like and care about her and I hope she finds someone who can be 100%there for her.

As for my wife, I don't know what she knows, but she can't be surprised that an attractive man isn't going to be faithful with once a month duty sex[/quote]

You're delusional, stop making excuses for being a slime ball.

Tell her how you feel, or go to counseling. Your AP is a hoochie who has probably slept with a ton of guys. I'm pretty sure she's not worth risking your health and marriage for. Another possibility your wife knows what you are, pulled back a long time ago. Maybe you've had inappropriate relationships with women before, you flirt, emotional affairs, or you show too much interest in her friends. Once she started seeing those signs she realized she married the wrong type of person.[/quote]

Actually YOU are the delusional one. A wife who only puts out once per month clearly knows that she is falling short as a wife, and if he isn't worth her effort, what make her worth his effort (to be faithful)?

"I realize that our entire dating history and earlier marriage include XYZ, and you had reasonable expectations that we would both continue enjoying XYZ, but for various reasons (some of them a related to your actions/behavior) I have lost interest and won't be doing XYZ any more. Divorce me if you must, but that is the new deal"

For her, XYZ = sex
For him, XYZ = fidelity

Seems like his wife is getting exactly the treatment she has earned.[/quote]

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