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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP with all caps, I don't know what to tell you - I can't compete with voices in your head.  No one is shaming or judging divorced people. There is no stigma in divorce. Like none.

The OP wanted to know what life is like post-divorce. Remember, she asked.  I told her how to get a realistic picture of what it will be like.  She alone knows how the math works.  Maybe you'd prefer a "you go girl!" but I don't think that's good advice.  [/quote]

how can you say it's not good advice without knowing any particulars? It's absurd to claim that taking out the trash should be the price of a lifetime of misery for you and your entire household. You just sound increasingly clueless and paternalistic. If you want to talk about your OWN divorce regrets with some detail, we are all ears. meanwhile stop with the stupid assumptions. [/quote]

But you don't know the particulars either, do you?

The woman asked what the divorce will be like.  I think it's pretty sound advice to say, to imagine divorce, think of everything related to your husband and subtract it from your life. That's what it would look like.  I don't know if her husband takes out the trash.  But you also don't know if she and her household are in misery.

I am not divorced - precisely because I have an accurate tally of what my husband brings to the table, and what my life will be like without it. On all fronts.  I look at the calculus, and I make my choices accordingly.  [/quote]

Ok, tell us what your issues are with your husband that made you consider divorce.  You are unbearably smug.  [/quote]

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