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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My 17 DD is gorgeous and brilliant and has not really had a boyfriend. I think she intimidates the boys.  I look forward to her meeting some more confident boys in college. Also I believe she is not into sex or drugs/drinking which impacts her popularity.[/quote]

Wow, there is an astounding amount of delusion in your post.  [/quote]

Eh, I don't know. I know a lot or late bloomers that fit this mold. Maybe not that they all intimidated boys but that weren't the hot girl until maybe senior year and so her interests and friend group just continued on the same, plenty of groups of kids feel just under the radar enough to not be into parties with the say 100 most popular kids, those kids hang with their own groups. Some are into sex and drugs but many are just kind of coasting[/quote]

DP here. My 21 year old is gorgeous, brilliant and gets a lot of male attention.  She has dated very casually and knows what she wants but she has not found someone who she wants to be with. She is choosy and she is also not into casual sex, drugs etc.  She is very popular (I think her guy pals hang with her in the hope that she will one day change her mind).  She is at a school that does not have greek life or too many parties so she is not bombarded with the pressure to hook up with someone.

She has friends who are into casual hookups, she is not.  I think she is the winner in all of this and I am proud of her.  We are a liberal family so if she is gay or wants to be with someone from another race or religion we would be fine and my kids know that.

Would she tell me if she was with someone. Yes.  Considering, I am privy to details of which friend is hooking up with the professor, who is taking drugs, who is on Tinder, who is cheating..and which guy asked her out...I am pretty sure there will be open communication. [/quote]

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