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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I'm so sorry this happened and is still happening to you. Your suffering is palpable in your post. It is totally abusive for this man to visit your office and talk to you.
My heart goes out to you. Just keep your head up. Be strong sister.[/quote]

Abusive? He's her boss. He has to talk to her. As long as he's not harassing her or treating her differently from his other reports, he's not doing anything wrong. This is 100% on OP. She should get a new job if she doesn't want to see him. However, she has the typical lame excuses for not getting a new job that show that she really doesn't want to be completely rid of this guy.

And why should she keep her head up? She's right to feel ashamed. I'm not saying she has to self-flagellate forever, but as almost every person on this thread has said, she needs to remove herself from the situation by getting a new job. Every day that she continues working with her former AP is a day that she continues to disrespect her DH. That's why she still feels so lousy. Because every day her husband waves her goodbye in the morning with no idea that she's off to work with a guy who's seen her naked. And every work function where her husband shakes this guy's hand thinking he's just saying hi to his wife's boss without knowing that the guy had sex with his wife is another knife in his back that OP is placing.

OP says she feels badly because of her husband. She is going to keep feeling badly until she gets a new job, because as long as she works with her AP she is lying to her husband and making a fool of him daily. They can't move forward with that going on. Of course she feels badly. But there's only one solution. New job. However, since OP won't get a new job because her commute wouldn't be as good, the only conclusion is that she's really not that upset.[/quote]

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