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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Surprised by the anti-woman tone in many of the replies. I can imagine why these men are not successful in long term relationships, as they seem to think a woman “has to” have sex, as if they are bought and paid for. With that attitude, I suspect they have indeed been in this situation. The OP, however, seems a kind and warm man. Marriages have seasons, and the levels of intimacy are up and down. As another poster noted, women need to feel loved and appreciated to want to have sex, while men get hostile if they don’t have sex. This doesn’t work out so well, as hostile men are not real attractive to a woman. I’d suggest the OP step away from focusing on sex and instead spend some time trying to re-establish a loving relationship. Smiles, kind compliments, some hand-holding, dinners out, courting type behavior may make his wife feel loved and appreciated. Talking about things that interest her will help. Too often men become self-centered, arrogant, harsh without realizing it. A woman can begin to feel used, rather than loved - no care or attention, no interest in her thoughts or opinions is a turn off. Perhaps reestabishing a loving, interested attitude may help to make her feel loved and appreciated - and that’s when a woman is more interested in intimacy. Therapy may help, hormonal balance testing might help too. But most important sex organ is the brain. [/quote]

Everything about this answer shows you’re not reading and understanding anything OP has said or reported on how his wife feels. You’re just blathering generalities that don’t apply to his specific circumstances. [/quote]

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