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[quote=Anonymous]As rude and insensitive as this is of them to leave for you to tackle while you are grieving, it is more rude and insensitive to ask living people to button up their lives so as not to inconvenience you when they are gone.

I have a similar situation and I'm resigned to having to do it when they are gone to preserve their dignity now. If they get a little more decrepit or scared, they might let me declutter. These are the same people who said 'never again' when we had to clean out my grandparents- who weren't hoarders- neat home, but just lots of stuff, like 6 sewing machines and a dozen hammers, etc and a house large enough that it wasn't messy. Now that they are aging, I think facing the clean up makes them think about their mortality and they do not want to do that.

If they don't respond to reason or guilt, I'd either send them on mini vacations or have other family members entertain them here and there while I go through things, or I'd bank that vacay time, preparing to use it when it's needed.

If they sound angry, there is no way you will get them cleaning out on your watch.[/quote]

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