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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think the two are mutually exclusive. I agree that choreplay isn't enough, but part of "working on yourself" is becoming a functional adult, which means taking on household duties. He can get in incredible shape and have women throwing themselves at hime left and right, but if at home he still acts like an entitled child and expects his wife to play mommy to him while he lounges around doing whatever he wants, she's still not going to be interested.[/quote]

Nope, nope, nope. If she's genuinely attracted, she will not care that he does no choreplay. And doing choreplay will actually decrease her attraction if it exists.

And if she does care, so what? He's got options - women are throwing themselves at him - and he's outta there.

[quote=Anonymous]Best choice is to act similar to the way you did when first dating. You probably worked out regularly, dressed nicely, worked hard at your job, and had interests and hobbies. You also probably planned fun dates, [b]pulled your own weight around the house if you had roommates,[/b] cleaned up after yourself so others wouldn't have to, showed appreciation when people did nice things for you, and were generally an enjoyable person to be around. [/quote]

LOL, if the guy had housemates, I guarantee you the house was not maintained to a feminine level of satisfaction. A male group house is usually a pigsty. So hey, husbands should do that much work? Not a problem. Even if he lived alone, he probably cleaned the place to a "good enough for me" level, which almost certainly would not satisfy most females.

Again, forget the choreplay nonsense, OP, that's not going to do anything good for you.

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