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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I notice that women agonize over informing the DW but men couldn't give a shit. Kinda like a 'bros before hos' thing, and I wonder if it makes more sense to take their approach instead of worrying about someone else's marriage. You're not his keeper.[/quote]

OP here. My husband does care as well. We know it's ultimately none of our business. I don't know what goes on behind closed doors in others' homes although I don't get the sense that his wife would be ok with this. I just was curious what the thought process is behind going to a restaurant 15 minutes from your house with your mistress, showing PDA and not worrying about getting caught by someone who knows you. Is he just past the point of giving a shit? [/quote]

The bigger question is why do YOU give a shit?[/quote]

Because OP is not a scum person, that's why. She cares that this douchebag is out there ruining his family for anyone to see. It bothers her. As it should. Only cheaters, who are selfish and immature, think it's totally cool to act this way and that everyone should just not care. The cheater MADE it OP's business. He should've been more discreet if he didn't want to make it others' business, which is what makes me think it's in no way an open marriage and the the husband is a total jerk and this probably isn't his first "slip."

Also, it could easily happen in the same way to OP, or any of us. Would she want someone to tell her? Maybe that's why she's struggling with what to do or to understand why the husband would do it. [/quote]

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