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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be careful what you ask for, men.

I'm 42 and in great shape/low body weight/fit and frankly my husbands 20 lb weight gain since marriage is starting to get to me.[/quote]
Man here. Why should I be careful? I 100% agree with you. This is really just basic stuff people. Don't get fat, it is NOT attractive!!!
I suspect this is even MORE true for those of us who have remained fit ourselves, clearly fitness is important to us, so we are quite likely to be unattracted to our overweight spouses.

Install MyFitnessPal on his phone to start tracking his actual caloric intake (and I guarantee it's more than he thinks).
Purchase a "smart scale" so he can easily/quickly track his weight, just step on at about the same time each day.
Target a 500 calorie per day deficit. This will take him 20 weeks to lose the weight.
The goal is to lose weight gradually, but equally important is to make the basic lifestyle changes to maintain an attractive weight.[/quote]

The problem is that he lacks motivation, not know how.[/quote]

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