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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm female and for me:

Size 8- never get hit on, DH has zero interest in sex

Size 4-6: occasionally hit on, DH moderate interest in sex

Size 2- hit on constantly, DH can't keep his hands off me.

I think you have to look at people's actions rather than what they say they want. There's a reason celebrities have low body fat, wear a lot of makeup, have certain hairstyles/clothing, and use photoshop- it's what the majority of people are attracted to.

And it goes both ways- a lot of women I know say they like dad bod, but 50 Shades and Magic Mike probably wouldn't have had as much success if the men in them had flabby stomachs and flat butts. [/quote]

You might just not carry extra weight well.  I've been anywhere from a 10 to an 18 and I get hit on constantly at each size, but it's always distributed in an hourglass -- just bigger or smaller.  I imagine it's harder for people with no hips or an apple shape (or very short women) to carry weight in a way that looks sexy even if it's bigger.[/quote]

I'm a size eight and would prefer to be a six, or even a four. That said, I am being actively pursued by three very eligible bachelors: an older guy (late forties) who's a handsome retired naval officer with a corporate career; late thirties tech entrepreneur who's a former Olympian; and a good-looking mid-thirties tenure-track professor. These are men in high demand, and yet I - at a size eight! - have captured their attention. First PP must just not carry weight well. [/quote]

I'm a size 8 and I lost about 20 pounds last year due to a medical issue, taking me down from 145 to 125 pounds. (I'm 5'5)  I have to say, it was almost immediate the lack of attention I got.  It took me back to when I was skinnier, and I always was worrying about what guys thought.  Now I feel like I have to beat them away with sticks!  I had thought the difference was just mental maturity but I realized a lot of it was how I was really being treated.  Guys are just a lot more into me at 140-145.  People can say what they want, but I know what I've observed and seen with my two eyes

Kind of relevant- look at Taylor Swift- she's gained about 20 pounds in the past year, and all I've heard is people saying how much better she looks. I think she's a hell of a lot sexier now than she was before, and the consensus agrees with me.  So it's a total myth that all women look better at a smaller size- ludicrous.   (Btw, I regained my weight and the attention came back almost immediately) [/quote]

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