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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is no way to know with these sketchy details what happened.

Maybe he didn't know the police were trying to get a hold of him? I assume if they really wanted to, they could have found him pretty easily through his home or job.

He may have kept it form Op given her reaction. She immediately calls him a rapist and kicks him out of the house. If I had a spouse like that, I would keep things pretty close to my chest too. If I knew I wouldn't have my spouse's support and would have to deal with them accusing me as well, I wouldn't say much.

Maybe he is guilty, maybe he isn't. Hard to tell from the details here. Either way, the marriage is over.

As for fake reports of rape...it happens, however that 2-10% is false reports of reported rapes. The majority of sexual assaults never get reported to police so that 2-10% isn't 2-10% of women assulated, it is 2-10% of women who went to police.[/quote]

100% all of this.  Also, the 2-10% doesn't account for suspects who are considered and discarded in perfectly valid rape cases.  Who knows what happened, but no matter what, I think both OP and her DH have behaved poorly.  As to OP, couldn't she have at least let DH slept on the couch or given him time to explain his thinking before she assumed his guilt, kicked him out, and threw years down the drain?  Is he such an awful husband that this was somehow the last straw?  If not, the marriage couldn't have been built on much trust or friendship to get to this place so quickly.[/quote]

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