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[quote=Anonymous]Primary- hmm.. I feel like I do 70% of everything- we both work - I make considerably more but that's due to industry differences- we work equally hard at jobs.  Both make good money.
  But I do most of stuff around house, financial planning, etc- I can figure out how to fix stuff, he gets frustrated and is useles. If a light is out, a doorknob is broken, the stroller breaks, always me who fixes or finds solution.  Even buying train tiickets- he buys two one ways instead of round trip- silly but I'm always thinking why does he do that. So I feel more capable.  I do feel more intellectual and that's tough. 
  He hasn't watched a documentary or read a book or newspaper in 15 years.
 I'll hear something interesting on education or environment or business and he has no interest.  So I'm mentally bored. 
 He has low sex drive which I'm ok with.

I guess I feel like I could do this all alone and sometimes wonder what he brings to the table.  
He's a good dad but I'm just frustrated right now.

I fantasize about how I could live where I want and have easy life not having to accommodate him. I could buy real estate, save money and have my own way all the time. Now I feel like I have to pretend like he's helpful.
  I sound like a man... sometimes I feel like one!
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