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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your MIL wants greater access to her grandkids and to have a "status" that is more on par with your mom. You should take her concerns to heart (if you have a good relationship) and work to improve things. HOWEVER, it sounds like your MIL is really grasping here and wants you to put her in the delivery room as a way of "proving" to all the players involved (including herself) that she's as important as your mom or "worthy" or whatever. That's not okay. Your mom will be focused on your health during the process, your MIL will likely be monofocused on the baby. That would drive me nuts.[/quote] Absolutely agree with all of this. You can address the inequity issue without letting her attend the delivery. [/quote]
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