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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I watched the police body cam footage & think the police ultimately made many mistakes.

While they were very friendly and attempted to stay fair to both sides - the fact that they put up Brian in a hotel room while allowing Gabby to leave alone, uncomfortably driving the van to an unknown destination is outrageous.

I get that the officer stressed in the video that they, the authorities could not treat either party differently due to gender but c’mon…..gender definitely matters when sending a Female off alone in a van to fend for herself while driving a Male to a hotel and assuring he arrives safe and will be taken care of.

A girl has a much better chance at possibly attracting predators vs. a guy.
So yes gender matters in this case.

She deserved a hotel room while Brian should have had the option to just take the van.
Bad judgement of the officers IMO.

Also labeling her the “Aggressor” and him the “Victim” was preposterous at best.
Even then w/out the knowledge we have now.

Anyone speaking to them could see that she was continuously crying while he was chatting cheerfully w/the cops.
It was apparent that she was scared while to him, none of what was happening was even a big deal.
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We have been over this SO. MANY. TIMES.  She admitted to slapping/scratching him, so technically she was the abuser in the situation. They're not legally allowed to put the abuser up in a hotel room. [/quote]Legally allowed?  Show me the law.  It may be their policy or how they do things, but I seriously doubt there is a law.[/quote]

Even if it was just their policy, THEY DID WHAT THEY WERE SUPPOSED TO DO.  PLEASE stop blaming these guys, I'm sure they feel guilty, but [b]they did what they were supposed to do[/b].[/quote]

Shoulda, coulda, woulda.  She's still dead.  The problem was these backwood simpletons couldn't size up the situation appropriately.  Maybe they were nice enough, but nice is as nice does.  She's dead.  They misread the situation.  Yeah, she scratched him.  He milked those scratches for all they were worth.  We don't know why she scratched him, but give me a break.  That piece of garbage man MURDERED her.  They were worried about a few scratches when they were coddling a murderer in the making?  We don't even know if he also murdered the lesbian couple, but good chance he did - all things considered.  Again, they were coddling a murderer.

These people shouldn't be cops.  They bring to mind the cops who returned one of Jeffrey Dalhmer's victims to Dalhmer, who subsequently murdered and ate the poor guy.[/quote]

This is absolute bs. How dare you blame them for what happened. They cannot predict the future. They did the best they could with the information they had. And btw, she was the aggressor.[/quote]

Dp, but people with experience with domestic violence are aware that abusers frequently bait their victims, and are very good at gaslighting.  She scratched him after he locked her out of her own car and tried to drive away.[/quote]

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