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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP.  Look. after two kids and nursing,the ladies are showing the effects.  I still feel sexy and we have a great sex life but... it's actually more aesthetic and how I look outside the bedroom.  That's why my husband says its' ridiculous but I do think I'd feel more confident to fill out.[/quote]

Get some "cutlets" and stuff your bra, if it's purely a matter of aesthetics outside the bedroom. https://smile.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=bra+gel+inserts

Google "botched boob job" etc. and really look at the possible downsides to this.

Consider whether or not you enjoy having sensitive boobs, as you may lose some nerve sensation.

Understand that you will likely need your boobs enhanced more than once; follow-up/revision surgeries years later are pretty common with this procedure.

You will have visible scars. Yes, current implants and techniques are worlds better than they were, but this is a surgical procedure, and anyone who ever sees your boobs in decent lighting will know. And yes, I'm into women, and have seen and played with a few pairs.  :twisted:

Understand that the aesthetics of your new boobs won't even fully kick in for a year, as there will be swelling, drainage, etc. you'll need to deal with.

Understand that your new boobs may be uneven, sit unnaturally, and look "weird" even if they're done correctly.

Consider how active you are, and are likely to be. Having implants may affect this.

Consider counseling for your self-esteem, because changing your body isn't necessarily going to change your mind.

Please note that none of these things have effall to do with your spouse's opinion. While I think it would be wise to have further conversation(s) with him to fully understand his position, I believe in body autonomy. They're your boobs, so it's your call.

But really think about what it could cost you. It's not just money.[/quote]

Just wanted to respond as someone who actually has implants; yes, there are risks - everything in life carries a risk.  You can minimize risk by doing your homework on the doctor you choose and following post op instructions.  Mine are 11 years old, and I LOVE the still.  I'm 5'8 and 127 lbs (was about 130-135 at time of surgery) and was a B cup but uneven and not as perky as I would have liked.  I consulted 3 drs, and went with the one who I felt was the most honest- he told me all the downsides, told me he would only do the incision point he believed was the best (some will let you choose, mine went through my armpit), etc.  
The surgery was quick, the pain after wasn't rough for 2-3 days but not awful, and now they still look great, the scar is impossible to see, and they are soft, and I have full sensitivity in my nipples like pre surgery.   And my boyfriend at the time wasn't happy I did it... Until he was me post surgery... Most guys think of huge porn star type boobs when they hear fake, but going up a cup size or two and having a better shape- they won't complain[/quote]

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