Anonymous
Post 10/02/2016 04:33     Subject: Re:I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is OP. Look. after two kids and nursing,the ladies are showing the effects. I still feel sexy and we have a great sex life but... it's actually more aesthetic and how I look outside the bedroom. That's why my husband says its' ridiculous but I do think I'd feel more confident to fill out.


Get some "cutlets" and stuff your bra, if it's purely a matter of aesthetics outside the bedroom. https://smile.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=bra+gel+inserts

Google "botched boob job" etc. and really look at the possible downsides to this.

Consider whether or not you enjoy having sensitive boobs, as you may lose some nerve sensation.

Understand that you will likely need your boobs enhanced more than once; follow-up/revision surgeries years later are pretty common with this procedure.

You will have visible scars. Yes, current implants and techniques are worlds better than they were, but this is a surgical procedure, and anyone who ever sees your boobs in decent lighting will know. And yes, I'm into women, and have seen and played with a few pairs.

Understand that the aesthetics of your new boobs won't even fully kick in for a year, as there will be swelling, drainage, etc. you'll need to deal with.

Understand that your new boobs may be uneven, sit unnaturally, and look "weird" even if they're done correctly.

Consider how active you are, and are likely to be. Having implants may affect this.

Consider counseling for your self-esteem, because changing your body isn't necessarily going to change your mind.

Please note that none of these things have effall to do with your spouse's opinion. While I think it would be wise to have further conversation(s) with him to fully understand his position, I believe in body autonomy. They're your boobs, so it's your call.

But really think about what it could cost you. It's not just money.


Just wanted to respond as someone who actually has implants; yes, there are risks - everything in life carries a risk. You can minimize risk by doing your homework on the doctor you choose and following post op instructions. Mine are 11 years old, and I LOVE the still. I'm 5'8 and 127 lbs (was about 130-135 at time of surgery) and was a B cup but uneven and not as perky as I would have liked. I consulted 3 drs, and went with the one who I felt was the most honest- he told me all the downsides, told me he would only do the incision point he believed was the best (some will let you choose, mine went through my armpit), etc.
The surgery was quick, the pain after wasn't rough for 2-3 days but not awful, and now they still look great, the scar is impossible to see, and they are soft, and I have full sensitivity in my nipples like pre surgery. And my boyfriend at the time wasn't happy I did it... Until he was me post surgery... Most guys think of huge porn star type boobs when they hear fake, but going up a cup size or two and having a better shape- they won't complain
Anonymous
Post 10/02/2016 04:05     Subject: I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:Your choice, but take it from me- a short, size 6/8, DD-- NOT WORTH IT. Clothes shopping is a pita and nothing looks right. I wish I was an a or b.


Really? but I bet you are the instagram or snapchat queen right? I have perky b's and never feel a need to wear a bra though I do anyway for modesty but I always wondered what it would be like to flash cleavage at every man. Even though with my b's guys still stare at them.
Anonymous
Post 10/02/2016 04:02     Subject: Re:I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:While not boob related, about ten years ago my wife at age 55 was tired of the fatty bags under her eyes (inherited from her Dad) and a turkey neck. Otherwise she was quite trim and very youthful. But she just didn't feel good about what she saw in the mirror. My attitude was (1) assess the risks thoroughly and (2) the decision is yours - it's your body. She looked like a mummy for a few days and it took a couple of weeks of rehab but there is no doubt that she is happy with the results. She doesn't have a stretched look at all. I'm happy she did it because it made her feel better about herself. If she feels better....I feel better.

IMO husbands should have an opinion but the majority vote should be the woman's. But critical is assessing the risks, not just thinking I'd look better. Surgery is serious business. Ask Joan Rivers.


I'm single but thinking of getting my eyes done though I'm under 30! nights of study have done a number on my eyes. Thinking of plastic surgery BEFORE i meet the one if I ever do.
Anonymous
Post 10/02/2016 04:01     Subject: Re:I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Hey, OP. You can have some of mine. Seriously. I am also a petite woman and have always had big boobs. Think, far-into-the-alphabet-size cups.
I was hoping they would shrink after nursing two kids. No such luck. They only got bigger!!! I’ve considered breast reduction surgery, but I am a wimp when it comes to elective surgery.
I would gladly donate to anyone!!!
I guess we always want what we don’t have......


Yes thanks. But you are an ass regardless whether you have the big tits to match.

Big boobs. Small heart.


Big boobs look good for a short time then they fall to you waist in your 30's.
Anonymous
Post 10/01/2016 14:22     Subject: I want boobs ( seriously)
Pics or it didn't happen.
Anonymous
Post 10/01/2016 12:11     Subject: Re:I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update.

Suffice to say, I got boobs (seriously).

Had them done a few weeks ago and absolutely no regrets. And there is a happy husband too.

Know it's not the right thing for everyone but I am thrilled so far.

Thanks to those who posted such helpful messages.

Good for you OP!
Anonymous
Post 10/01/2016 11:04     Subject: Re:I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:OP here with an update.

Suffice to say, I got boobs (seriously).

Had them done a few weeks ago and absolutely no regrets. And there is a happy husband too.

Know it's not the right thing for everyone but I am thrilled so far.

Thanks to those who posted such helpful messages.


Good for you! How was recovery? Were you nervous?
Anonymous
Post 10/01/2016 10:55     Subject: Re:I want boobs ( seriously)
OP here with an update.

Suffice to say, I got boobs (seriously).

Had them done a few weeks ago and absolutely no regrets. And there is a happy husband too.

Know it's not the right thing for everyone but I am thrilled so far.

Thanks to those who posted such helpful messages.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2016 17:07     Subject: I want boobs ( seriously)
If your DH is not interested and likes you the way you are, I would not do it. Plus, inserting foreign substances in your body may or may not affect your health A relative of mine had a boob job, she looked good, the had a surprise kid, gained a lot of weight in her chest (again, surprisingly, because she was a AA before), and has now developed back problems. Now that I am going through menopause I am gaining weight in my upper body, which has never happened before in my life.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2016 16:38     Subject: Re:I want boobs ( seriously)
While not boob related, about ten years ago my wife at age 55 was tired of the fatty bags under her eyes (inherited from her Dad) and a turkey neck. Otherwise she was quite trim and very youthful. But she just didn't feel good about what she saw in the mirror. My attitude was (1) assess the risks thoroughly and (2) the decision is yours - it's your body. She looked like a mummy for a few days and it took a couple of weeks of rehab but there is no doubt that she is happy with the results. She doesn't have a stretched look at all. I'm happy she did it because it made her feel better about herself. If she feels better....I feel better.

IMO husbands should have an opinion but the majority vote should be the woman's. But critical is assessing the risks, not just thinking I'd look better. Surgery is serious business. Ask Joan Rivers.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2016 16:13     Subject: I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:Your choice, but take it from me- a short, size 6/8, DD-- NOT WORTH IT. Clothes shopping is a pita and nothing looks right. I wish I was an a or b.


You wish you were a AA with puckered empty skin flaps and nipples that point straight down? How do we arrange a trade?
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2016 16:05     Subject: I want boobs ( seriously)
Your choice, but take it from me- a short, size 6/8, DD-- NOT WORTH IT. Clothes shopping is a pita and nothing looks right. I wish I was an a or b.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2016 15:55     Subject: I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:General anesthesia is the closest a person comes to death. It is not worth the risk for a cosmetic procedure.
Not worth it [b]to you
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2016 13:20     Subject: I want boobs ( seriously)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a big boob fan, personally I would rather DW have A cups over fakes.


Meh. You would get used to it.


Ex GF was fake 36D, wife has natural breast was 34 E when we met now a 34 G. Two GFs in between were36/38 A. I still take the As over fakes.

But you *have* 34 G's ... (Never heard of that size, a typo or no?) - but anyway shouldn't you be happy with the boobs you *have*? She's your wife!


I was responded to the comment about getting "used to it."

The 34G is not a typo (I know, I spend a lot of money on bras for her). And I am very very happy with her 34 Gs. They look great on her, and she carries them well.


"G" is the same as a DDDD (quad D)
so DD is an E, DDD is an F, and DDDD is a G
in America, they tend to size with multiple Ds (I've seen DDDD)
In Europe, it's E, F, G
though lately, in America, they have been using more of the E, F, G


I'm a 32G. I've never heard of DDDD
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2016 13:07     Subject: I want boobs ( seriously)
General anesthesia is the closest a person comes to death. It is not worth the risk for a cosmetic procedure.