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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You -- and all DCUMs -- who demand all contact with ex's, women, etc., be ended are crazy.  Please respect and trust your partners.  Please accept that you DH can be normal and actual friends with other women.  Please do not complain, nag, or bitch yourself into a "he has no female friends" dead zone.  Please do not make your and his life hell over unnecessary drama..[/quote]

This is so true and this is coming from a woman. If you make yourself the only woman in your boyfriend/DH life then when a woman that is even mildly titillating comes along they go bonkers cause you are the only female they have been exposed to in forever. Now as for the OP of this thread.....that is a little more than a "friend". Seems she is the one with all the power right now. If she decided to move their relationship further he is gone. That is like a sword hanging over your head. Who wants that.[/quote]

I am the PP who said "so what if you cooked your goose"...I don't advocate for cutting off the opposite sex altogether. My fiancé had female friends and I have male friends. The problem with OP's case is that her boyfriend wasn't transparent about it at first, and this woman gets a good morning and a good night from him, and even phone calls before calls to OP. There is nothing at all wrong with having opposite sex friends, but in my opinion, your partner and significant other should always be ther number one opposite sex person in your life (aside from family and sometimes even then). The issue is that it seems that OP is not number one here. [/quote]

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