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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, can't you get meds for flying? My grandma used to take valium.[/quote] OP here. I can and I do! As well as a ton of other techniques. So I can manage to get on the plane. It's just an awful experience. It's worth it to be at my neices Bat Mitzvah. The vacation aspect is a totally different calculus.[/quote] If you're getting help for your phobia, are usually close, and he lives nearby, would you consider inviting him to one of your therapy sessions? Plan ahead with your counselor what you would like to cover in the conversation. Be prepared to hear his side too, but it might help him to get where you're coming from in a way that arguing about it can't. And regardless of whether you do this or not, try to make the distinction clearer that going (or not) on this trip is not an accurate measure of affection for him and his children. Apologies if this was already mentioned by someone - I didn't go through all the responses. [/quote]
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