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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^^^I've been trying to do that. It's not as easy as people think.[/quote]

Agree  People think that you can magically wave a wand and everything will be alright.  It's hard to move on after being cheated on.  It's not the wanting them back, it's rethinking your whole life and relationship, how to fix yourself, how to make sure your kid is still okay after all of this, a lot of self-restrain to not trash the other parent, when all you want to do is tell them the truth, but you know better.

Let this poor woman heal on her own time.  If you haven't been through it, you have no business telling her how to deal with it.   Not only that, everyone is different and deals differently.  And yes, we can't live in the past, but just because you wish to get over it, doesn't mean that it magically happens.

OP - go if you really think it will not affect you.  Talk to your therapist about it.  If you don't have one, get one.  It will help your overall health also.[/quote]

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