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[quote=Anonymous]So many pages in, so my two cents might be redundant, but I think you need to be willing to put in the work to get to a place where you and your husband can be in agreement about how you spend your money. It sounds like your husband is being extremely generous already, and you are resorting to underhanded ways to shuttle more money to your family. I would be very seriously upset with my spouse for undermining me this way. You are not respecting him, your relationship, or his generosity (in my opinion.) Start by honoring your husband's already significant contributions, and by honoring the responsibility you have to mutual support, honesty, goal setting etc... in your marriage. Then move on to a discussion of whether you both could/should/want to be sending more money to anyone else.[/quote]
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