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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are already swimming in the money you have gotten. I'm a SAHM and I get like an iota of what you get, and I have no idea where the money we're supposedly saving is going.  I too am afraid to ask for more, but I think you have it pretty good.[/quote]

This thread totally started wrong. [b]I should not have mentioned our HHI or my disabled brother. What I wanted to know was whether SAHMs received money from their DH since SAHMs don't earn an income.[/b] I was hoping some SAHMs woupld chime in and say their DH put $X into their retirement account or receive $Y per month to use as they please (mani/pedi, gifts, going out).

I started the conversation with DH last night. Did not mention my family at all. Think DH suspects I want to be able to spend money on that childhood friend. If I wanted to go on a girlfriend getaway to Europe with a friend, DH would have no problem with it. If I was willing to stay at a 4 star hotel instead of a 5 star hotel but pay for my friend's plane ticket, I want to be able to have that option. I would rather have a budget per month or year to do as I please.[/quote]

Um, on the first thread, you already mentioned that you spend $10K/month.  Obviously this is money your DH earns as you are not earning money.

What you really want to know is whether SAHMs get money from their husbands, no questions asked, into a separate account, to do with as they please.

And the reason you are asking is that you want to conceal your frivolous spending and gifting of your family's money to your deadbeat brother.  Money BEYOND the money your husband already gives your brother in the form of free housing and "paying all his bills."  
This is disgusting. You and your brother are no better than a con artist, and you should be ashamed of trying to take advantage of your hardworking husband.[/quote]

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