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Reply to "Famous last words: I would NEVER cheat!"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think abusive spouses are a driving force in unplanned cheating. It is such a surprise and unexpected thing when suddenly there is someone who valued and appreciates you for who you are. It's hard to leave an abusive marriage given the very nature of the effect abuse has on the spouses sense of self. It's sheer strength, anyone who can break free from that cycle whether it takes a fling with an AP or not. [/quote] Sorry, abuse is no excuse. I've been in two abusive long term relationships, the second one cheated on me extensively. Never would I have nor did I cheat. I thought about it long and hard with the second one - sauce for the gander and all that - but in the end even though I clearly had low self-esteem to be in such a relationship, I had a core of honesty that simply wouldn't allow me to do such a thing.[/quote] careful now, you don't want to hurt yourself when you fall down off of that high horse of yours.[/quote]
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