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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look, some women are afraid to bring up exclusivity even if they want it because they are worried it will scare the guy away. So even if they want to be exclusive, they may feel like they should go out with others in case the other guy is just casual about her - maybe he is wasting her time, she figures.

Guys, if you don't want her dating  others, bring up exclusivity.[/quote]

I don't get this line of reasoning. I totally get not bringing up exclusivity too early for fear of scaring the guy off. But if you want to be exclusive with someone then presumably you have strong enough feelings for that someone to forgo dating other people.  No rule of the universe says that you can only stop dating others after you have the exclusivity talk.

I guess what I'm saying is that if I like someone enough to not date others, then I would have no desire to date others, regardless of what talk I have had with the primary person I'm dating.

It's like the poster on the first page who said she doesn't like dating multiple men but she'll date multiple men until an exclusivity talk happens. If you don't like dating multiple men why the hell are dating multiple men?[/quote]

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