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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's definitely a mismatch in terms of dating value. I am 99.9% certain OP could not get quality dates/sex anywhere as easy as the girl he's seeing can get with the opposite gender. OP's girl knows this also.

OP - give us more info. Are you in biglaw or in another highly remunerative field/position? How was your dating life in high school, college, and in your 20's?

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Op here. I am established - work at a finance company ( make  around300k/net). I own my own home, cars, etc.

I am more of a monogamous person, but I had my share of misguided deeds. I had 6 serious partners, and dated a few others for a few months. I've had about 3 one night stands. In total, I've slept with 12 women. I do have some women chase me just for the lifestyle I can provide them with.

I've had sex with this current women 5-6 times. Used a condom every time. I've never said she was mine and I'm not being possessive. I was just hurt. I agree I should of had the ta lk before now. It was my mistake, and potentially my loss. [/quote]

Don't beat yourself up over this...shit happens. Just be thankful you did not move to a more serious level(not that she would have done that...or stop seeing this other guy). It's sound like you all were dating and that was not enough for her. There are plenty of women out there who are interested in a more traditional arrangement and would bring it up after a month. Hell there are some women who would not sleep with you for a few months(not recommending that path though). You really do not owe her anything...so keep that in mind. Just one question how did you find out about this site?[/quote]

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