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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DCUMers now want to know what your job is, OP, that is so totally non flexible (according to you), no sick days (or do you not choose to use them?), you can tele commute, you need a degree for, and no other jobs are availble from whereverwr youre posting from except at Starbucks (your words). if your dh is out of town all the time, why don't you move to a place with more jobs opportunities for you. He's away so what diffetence does it make to him where the house is. [/quote] This. I am someone who has read this entire thread (and posted earlier about depression), and I'm utterly confused. This sounds like a VERY strange situation, and it is hard for anyone here to help you because a) you seem defensive (or possibly depressed and not realizing it- there is nothing wrong with that) and unwil ling to accept most suggestions and b) you have provided very little information about what it is you or your DH does that results in this situation. Is your DH unavailable because of his job? Or is he sick and in treatment for something? The answer matters, because if it is his job, move somewhere else as PP suggested. What is your degree? How is it this is the ONLY company you can work for by telework? The whole thread started asking if you should SAH, yet that doesn't even seem financially possible for you. I REALLY think you should take a sick day and seek some professional help. This will not be healthy for your kid in the long term if they sense you are so unhappy and overwhelmed, and I really mean this as someone trying to help. [/quote]
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