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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I would leave him and not because of the fidelity thing, it doesn't mean much.  The way you describe your marriage makes you sound more like his nurse than his partner. It's all about "my leaving  will devastate him, he will become more anxious blah blah".  It is not your job to make and keep another adult healthy.  Believe me, your husband will deal.  You owe that sort of thing to your children but not to a grown ass man.  What are YOU getting out of this marriage? Other than the satisfaction of keeping a grown man non-devastated?  What does he give you? In what way does he support you? How is HE keeping you non-devastated?

What I'm saying is that you have, it seems, the wrong motivation to stay married.  You kind of view yourself as his crutch.  And that's no good reason to stay married.  Altruism runs out, and it is best yours runs out when you are still good looking and fertile. You don't say if you have children, and that would be a good reason to stay, but if not, there are other men out there who don't need nursing.[/quote]

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