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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is exactly when an affair is justifiable.  When you would do your spouse more harm by leaving them then by having a discreet affair.  My DW went years with zero desire after the kids were born.  I had a couple affairs that allowed me to stay married and sane.  She regained her libido, I am faithful now, we are very happy family.

OP, you need to put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others.[/quote]

"Put on your oxygen mask" by jumping overboard. Great plan, PP!  :roll:  And when that "discreet affair" blows up?[/quote]

Well, if she gets caught it will either be the wake up call her DH needs or it will lead to divorce.  She is going to end up divorced or miserable anyway if she doesn't have an affair.

Signed - a DH who was never caught and knows plenty of others who weren't caught.  [/quote]

This "logic" makes absolutely no sense to me, and I'm so disheartened to see so much of it. You're faced with a problem. You can address the problem, ignore the problem and go on as-is, leave (because the problem isn't solveable/worth trying to solve), or do something that, if discovered, not only exacerbates the original problem, but drops several more beside it.

And you chose the latter?! Even if you don't get caught by someone else, YOU KNOW. Is your integrity really so valueless?[/quote]

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