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Reply to "Harmless, but annoying "stalking"? At what point should I take action?"
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[quote=Anonymous]^^forgot to say, another reason to keep your current "he's harmless" narrative, is that to admit to your DH this situation is to admit that you liked the attention, and flirted a little. It's embarrassing to admit that you liked the attention and may have egged it on. At first, it feels like flattery. And all throughout, there is a surface flattery-aspect; the problem is the undercurrent of crazy-possessive-won't-let-go that accompanies it. Stalkers are betting that your ego will keep you quiet about this. That you liked the flattery, that you may have had a part in encouraging it, and that you were secretive about it to your DH. The stalker drives the wedge between you and your DH, isolating you. You gain power by facing your fears and telling your DH, and (yes, after maybe an argument or ten) moving together as a unit against the stalker.[/quote]
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