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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel sorry for OP.  She lives such an empty shallow life.

-  Research Scientist...with bad hair, wrinkled clothing, and often fly open (I don't get embarrassed until the shirt sticks out).[/quote]LOL, in a good way.

OP, *if* you do stay with your DH and have kids (which, I agree with other PPs, is a bad idea), you may find that he is an awesome partner and father.  If you read some of the posts on this forum about dis-engaged fathers and partners that don't pull their weight at home or with child care, you will note that, after the kids come along, this is one of the biggest areas of frustration for wives.

Then again, he may end up being a crappy, disengaged partner and father.  So, I agree with other PPs, divorce him already and let him move on.

BTW, my DH is not a great dresser, often wears tshirts (only thing he really wears) that has deodorant stains in the armpits.  I do buy him new shirts, but generally, he doesn't care, it doesn't bother him.  He is also not the best conversationalist (I find him frustrating at times).  But, here's the thing, I didn't base my feelings for him on how he dresses or how he carries on a conversation in a social setting.  He is a wonderful person at heart, and treats me really well.  Plus, he can cook and take care of the kids; gets up earlier than me and makes the family breakfast.  He is a great catch, even if he is a bad dresser and isn't great in social settings.

Perhaps, since you don't have kids, you are looking at superficial things in a man.  Once kids come along, that all goes out the window, and there are more important aspects to a partner than how one dresses or speaks in social settings.[/quote]

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