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I hope your husband goes balls deep in a woman who finds him humorous, sexy and interesting. YOU SUCK, OP. [/quote]

Lol. If she was willing to be a sister wife that would be great. Give me a break.  I'm  joking.

He wouldn't cheat that's actually one of his  good qualities. He's very loyal. We both are. I wouldn't step out on him  either.

People keep asking why I married him or what attracted me to him.

Let's see I met him at 22. He was the nicest of the guys I had dated up to that point. His family wasn't a total mess like the  families of past boyfriends. He had chosen a good field to work in.
He was nice. He was cute. We had fun together.  The sex wasn't bad. We dated for two years. He asked me to marry him. I said yes. We planned a wedding and a year later were married at 25.

If you are asking if I had giggly butterfly feelings for him. I never did. I  felt safe and comfortable around him. I still do feel safe around him.

I do think I loved him or thought I did. I think I still love him now, I don't wish ill on him.

But 10 years later he's not who I thought he would be, and if that's terrible I can own that. It's also disappointing.

As for divorce it really isn't that simple, not to mention no one in my circle has been divorced for reasons beyond infidelity,[b] I would be scrutinized[/b]. Plus, I'll be 33 in June. I want children. I'm not getting any younger.
Divorcing and starting over would make my small window of time even smaller.

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Are you in high school?  You are making a life decision.  You don't do that on the basis of "what will people say."  You shouldn't divorce your husband because you think your peers look down on him. You shouldn't stay with him because you think your peers will look down on you for divorce.  You need to get to therapy and grow up. 
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