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[quote=Anonymous]Oh my God, please let this man go free.  Do NOT have children with him.  How awful for a child to see his father treated with such derision and disrespect from his mother.

You sound SO much like my SIL.  She is deeply ashamed of her husband who is awkward, slightly schlumpy, not very ambitious, and a bit socially inept.  I like him SO much more than her.  He's kind and funny and his awkwardness is disarmingly charming.

We cringe at HER.  She is so dismissive and derisive of him.  She rarely allows herself to be seen in public with him.  She has gone from complaining about him behind his back to openly criticizing him in front of us.  Every year she gets worse.  And the worst thing is that our niece sees her dad disrespected and treated unlovingly ALL the time.  They have separate bedrooms and most of the times, she doesn't even bring him up to us for holidays because she is so embarrassed of him.  (We'd rather have him than her, frankly.)

Why doesn't she divorce him and free him from this life of disrespect?  Frankly, I think because she's a weak person who likes feeling superior to him and likes having a scapegoat for her unhappiness.

Don't bring a child into the world if you can't be proud of your child's father.  That's just disgusting.[/quote]

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