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[quote=Anonymous]Have you ever just owned making a unilateral decision.

Him: "Whhyyyyyy did you pick that one? It's the worst one! You made this decision unilaterally!"

You: "Yep".

Him: "But why would you pick this? It's terrible/costs too much."

You: "Yep. I decided unilaterally that unilateral decisions work best for now. It's no good to keep fighting about this. You don't want to change and I don't want to fight you about it. I need to get things done and so I am making the decisionsfrom now on because I have weighed the options, done the research and can make the decisions by the deadlines needed. Since you are not interested in offering your opinion when I have asked in the past, I can only assume that you have no opinion. I am not going to chase you for it anymore. You are more than welcome to take your own iniative to participate in decisions, but I am not accepting no response anymore. I am accepting actions and not empty words.

No responseand no action means you agree with me and the way I have handled it and I do not want to hear anymore about it. Now please pass the chicken."

Him: "(If he's really stupid) But this is wrong, blah blah"

You: "I'm done discussing this."

If he still continues, leave the room.

Don't justify after laying it out the one time. He knows what he is doing, the passive aggressive twit. He likes this game. He wants you to chase him and justify why you have the right to make the decision. Stop engaging at all. Put it on him. If he wants to be involved he has to make the effort to even find out what the decisions are that need to be made. Don't even offer those. See what he does. Either way, you will have a lot less resentment on your end.[/quote]

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