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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think we should trust the poster and not judge her.  It may be that this girl was not that grief stricken and just thoughtless all the time.  Anyhow let's all give it a rest.[/quote] nope. Poster is hateful and you are callous to assume the girl with dead mother wasn't grieving and op gets a oasis on insensitivity and self-absorption. In any event, maybe the girl loved the candle so much that she bought one like it as a gift. [/quote]

This girl was back in her dorm room and I assume going to class and functioning.  She chose to celebrate Secret Santa and opted to give a thoughtless regift instead of putting in a thoughtful effort.  Yes, her grief was understandable but grief does not give you the excuse to kill other people's joy (you never know what they might be struggling with or what depressing thing they are dealing with).  The world does not revolve around you. [/quote] It was a candle.  Get over it.[/quote]

No it was not just a candle.  It was THE very candle that the recipient's roommate had given.  Awkward.  But, yes, it was just Secret Santa and I am sure that all parties have "gotten over it".  Doesn't mean that it has been entirely forgotten though.

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