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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry for what happened to your daughter and wonder how she is doing now. How is she? I was raped when I was 18, as a virgin, and I avoided any sexual relationship for the next two years. Then I had a loving boyfriend and began a sexual relationship, leading to a series of relationships and eventually marriage. I was probably rather inhibited for a long time, and harbor negative feelings towards men, but eventually I got over it. Of all my issues that I deal with, things that cause problems for me in my life, rape is not at the top of my list. I agree that it is good that she told you. I never told anyone for years. In a way it got losing virginity out of the way, but obviously it would have been preferable to pass this threshold with a loving partner. I think a key to recovery is the ability to separate oneself from the act. I never felt guilty or bad. It was just something that happened and made me afraid but not something that defined me.[/quote]
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