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what makes you think such guy exist and wants to be with you? why didn't you find "someone like him just less dysfunctional" when you were 30?[/quote]

Maybe she wasn't ready for the right person yet back then, because she hadn't learned the important lesson that appearances and "perfect on paper" don't really matter. Now she knows and may be ready to meet the person who is right for her, no matter how imperfect he may seem to others. She may need to ignore what others such as her mom and her best friend think.[/quote]

right, she has now learned that what really matters is rough sex. good look pursuing that![/quote]

Yes, she is being honest with herself. Other women have expressed the same about liking rough sex. Why should she stay in a miserable situation with skin crawling at her husband's touch, all out of fear that she won't find someone else? [b]Why be so pessimistic?[/b] A person should not make their decisions based on pessimism and fear. There probably is someone better for her out there, and for her husband as well, someone who likes a more gentle person.[/quote]

it's not pessimistic it's realistic. if she could have had something better than her husband, she would have had it years ago - it's not like she married at 15. her husband is the best she can do, overall. she might find someone who will give her the kind of sex she wants, but that's just one of the many many needs she has.

and fear is a legitimate reason to make a decision - it's an emotion that is there for a reason, to prevent us from doing dangerous things.[/quote]

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