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[quote=Anonymous]I can't read all of these comments but I just want to chime in to say that I was raised by the kind of mom that probably did the whole "you're hurting mommy's feelings" when I was a toddler and then also told me as a young teen when I had hurt her feelings. And by "told me" I mean not just "hey, that was rude" but like cried and acted like I was the worst person for yelling at her or getting upset when I was going through teen angst and all that crap. Now I am the type to feel guilty about everything. I'm doing everything I can to not pass this to my child. Understand normal child development, realize that what your child is saying or doing is not personal but (hopefully) age appropriate. When they say something rude tell them it was rude and that it could a hurt a friends feelings but you don't have to lay a guild trip [/quote]
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