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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread, ladies and germs, is exactly why you should be very careful and never, ever tell.[/quote]

That sucks though! Because we all walk around each other and pretend it doesn't happen and then when it happens, as it does, as it will, people feel so isolated and alone.  Screw "you're a doormat" PPs - I'm sure they're all the vision of happiness.  :roll: [/quote]

This is true to some extent -- but its an issue inherent and pervasive throughout anyone outside a marriage viewing the marriage. I would not have selected any of the mates any of my friends selected and I would be unhappy in their marriages, and I am sure they would say the same about mine. We all have our own limits and ideas about what is and is not acceptable, and societal influence sways us so much less about others because we are not necessarily supposed to have a stance on whether our husband is a provider, a helper, etc. But cheating is something most people condemn, and so.... I think some people have to much ego to forgive infidelity and place too much emphasis on the ownership aspect of marriage, but I know that is my own personal perspective, so I am going to have my own personal reaction. Generalizations simply shouldn't be applied.[/quote]

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